The
Difference
by Judy MannIn order to help her own daughter overcome the
obstacles of female adolescents, Judy Mann embarked on an investigation of
what forces robbed girls of their self esteem and caused decreased scholastic
performance. The two years she spent interviewing social and gender experts,
visiting single-sex and coed schools, listening to popular music, reading
textbooks and talking to parents, psychologists, and educators culiminated in
The Difference.
Mann traced society's influence on girls from birth onward; noting that girls start out with
a developmental edge over boys, scoring higher on standardized tests early
in their education, seeming to be more mature and eager to learn, yet
when they leave high school, their standardized test scores are lower than
boys'. The questions she tries to answer is how, when and why girls are
derailed from the track of educational and professional success.
One merely has to look around a classroom to notice that boys command
more of the teacher's time and attention than the girls, who often sit quietly
awaiting their turns to speak. Teachers routinely call on boys eight
times more often than girls, asking them the tougher questions, and tolerating
their unruly behavior, especially in such traditionally male-dominated
subjects as math and science. In addition to simply recognizing this as a
problem and speculating as to its causes, Mann studied different correctional
options. Single-sex schools are the obvious answer, and research has proven
they work: women graduating from all-female colleges earned a mean income of
$44,000, about $5,000 more than the average male, and nearly double that of
the average woman. Other options such as single-sex math and science
courses were also explored.
However, the difference between boys and girls does not exist only in
school. Socially, boys and girls have very different experiences involving
morality and sexuality. Boys are given the message by society that they are
entitled to whatever they want, and that the ends justify the means in getting
what they want. Girls are taught to respect the feelings of others in whatever
they do, not to be too aggressive in getting what they want, and to be
fearful of men. With 70-90% of female college students reporting some form
of sexual harassment from male students, women do have reason to be cautious,
these statistics tell us that society must change. Men must be brought up
to respect women and their abilities, and women must learn to respect and
value themselves, and have confidence in their abilities.
In The Difference the reader is given some food for thought.
Not all of Mann's points have a basis in everyone's lives, but many hit
home. After reading this book, both men and women should have a better
understanding of sexist behaviors, and what they can do to promote a
gender-neutral environment.
researched and reported by Diane Gigantino
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